Negotiated results

I often hear people wonder how they got into the mess that they're in. The explanation is rather simple though.

Our lives are a result of agreements made. We are party to all these agreements, and should instead of complaining about the negotiated results rather look at our contribution to the agreements reached.

When we treat life as a negotiated agreement we take back control. As long as we are a party to an agreement,( see results), we can influence the terms of agreement.

It is clearly understood that if you eat more calories than you burn , you get fat. Your whole life works on a similar principle. You will seldom get more than you deserve, but you will never get more than you expect.